OK, I just bought a book whose title screamed at me... "Shut up, Stop Whining, and get a life!" by Larry Winget.. I'm in the process of reading the book, and man, is it hitting me right between the eyes! This guy does not pull any punches. THere's a reason he's called "The Pitbull of Personal Development"!

To hear a little of what he says go to http://www.larrywinget.com/hear.html