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Sex: Is it truly overrated?


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Lately, I've been thinking a lot more about my behavior of the sexual kind. I never foresaw becoming active again in that area and lately, I've had a bit of difficulty comphrending the effects and purposes of my sexual behavior lately. For example, is casual sex just plain wrong or can it be done without both sides getting hurt emotionally? How do I know where barriers are and to not cross them? It basically has made me question my actions a lot more carefully. There are things to consider when behaving in such a way. For example, it was instilled on me by many folks that I must use protection if I am active. I'm also considering talking more to the women I've been with to try and be sure that they haven't given me anything I dont' want. So far, I think I've worked hard on the communication part before partaking in anything. One of my biggest problems is that since I've undergone a major lifestyle change, it has affected everything about my life. It has given me more energy in areas where I never had that much energy. As a result, I have to find a way to use that energy in a positive way or let it go to waste. I really don't want to waste my energy. I want to seize the day, to enjoy my life to the fullest because you never kinow what the next day will bring. That is why I try to finish my homework immediately and not procrastinate. This makes time for me to get outside and meet people and have fun. I'm sure that most of you are adults and could chime in on this subject, even if you consider the behaviors I display as taboo.(Added 12/4: Again, I've learnt that no matter what you do, whether it's losing weight or whatnot, you still have to learn to become a better person before you can truly have what you wish for.)

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At the risk of sounding self-righteous:

I believe that the best principle when dealing with relationships, sexual or otherwise, is simply to ask yourself how you would like to be treated in their place, and then act accordingly. This principle is called the Ethic of Reciprocity (or "The Golden Rule") and is found in most human religions and codes of morality.

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Then I guess I could argue that I've been relatively thoughtful of the women I've been with. I mean, you can't just go into something with a one-sided perspective and expect to get away with it. One thing I do know is if they still want to talk to you, you must not have done anything bad.

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