A friend of mind just filed for a divorce from her husband (apparently a huge gamer). She said, "Instead of playing with and fondling ME, he was always playing with and fondling those damn computer games". -- Words of wisdom guys!
I've dated women who hated video games and they were totally cool with me playing and collecting because I knew what moderation was and I didn't ever let them interfere with our time together (minus seeing the occasional flea market/store that I HAD to visit). Balance, balance, balance.