Well, most people get their eBay and PayPal fees on cheap items back through shipping and 'handling' charges, something you can't really blame them for. I most of the time email the seller to ask for overseas shipping options and what his handling price is. Most of the time when I do that they ask just for the actual costs.
I do this because some asshole asked for like $7 handling costs after I won an item because I live overseas, yeah right, that makes sense... I was young and naive back them....
On the other hand, I once won a record for $10 including shipping, that shipping was $9.96 or something. I like that kind of sellers.