I'll echo the sentiments of those above. I hate to speculate about people, but I know some of us feared the worst. I'm glad that you're (seemingly) doing OK! All of our interactions have been pleasant and I had such a great time designing the q*Bert controller with you.
Within the context of atariage and the ColecoVision community as a whole, of course this was a big deal - and i'm thankful for your explanation and apology. But in the grand scheme of life, this hobby isn't worth health or family sacrifices, so i'm glad you were able to focus your energy where it was needed. It sounds like you're taking care of pixelboy (thank you!), who made good on the deposits, and that's great. I know he stepped up just at the right time to make everyone whole.
Once you've settled in, I look forward to seeing your work again. We've missed you!