The review of A-Z of Atari ST Games Volume 3 book RetroLaird is trying to delete!

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He WILL NOT STOP. 

 

He has classic Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Without serious help, he will destroy himself and his family. Speaking from horrible, bitter experience.

 

He won't change, he's not capable of that on his own. He's not even aware he needs to change.

 

Christ, Kieren, if you're reading this, for everyone's sake, please seek help. You don't have to live like this. You don't need to continually upset others to make you feel better. Stop wasting your energy on this, for the sake of your family.

 

My time here is done. I hope there will be a happy ending to all this, but I doubt it.

 

 

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1 hour ago, ∞ Vince ∞ said:

The problem is, of course, that Kizza is the kind of guy who could start a fight in an empty room. He doesn't need other people to blow up he does it himself. He's fighting invisible aggressors and in the process creating real unrest and real enemies in the process. I've said it before and again, he's a fool to himself. Someone on YT said he thought KH was suffering from Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Now I had never actually gone and read the symptoms of NPD before. I

If you do a lot of things seem to make a lot of sense. It isn't ASD he has, it's NPD.

It's absolutely NPD. As I posted in my first post here. I have experience of this, but I wish I didn't. 

 

He won't change, he won't even be able to admit to himself what he's done. The fact that this has being going on nearly 15 years, and it would appear he hasn't changed his behaviour in any way is telling. It will take someone very close to him to physically drag him towards help. Been there, done that.

 

On the other hand, if it isn't NPD, then he's possibly conscious and unapologetic of what he's doing, in which case, we're entering a whole different level of psychopathy. I hope it's NPD rather than the alternative...

 

What he *shouldn't* be doing though is using his alleged autism as an excuse for his behaviour. That is indefensible.

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1 hour ago, Welshworrier said:

So the commodore 64 book has another amusing thing (apart from the grammar)

 

How about an advert for the machine he had a financial interest in...

 

Oh, and Xmas greetings...

 

 

1 hour ago, Welshworrier said:

So the commodore 64 book has another amusing thing (apart from the grammar)

 

How about an advert for the machine he had a financial interest in...

 

Oh, and Xmas greetings...

 

I really don't want to get too embroiled in this, but everything that has transpired, everything I've read is all too familiar behaviour. I've had two people in my life over the years that exhibited such traits. One sought help, one did not. I don't want to go into what happened to my friend who did not seek help.

 

Textbook Narcissistic Personality Disorder. From the NHS mental health site:

 

 

Signs and symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder

• Grandiose sense of self-importance. ...
• Lives in a fantasy world that supports their delusions of grandeur. ...
• Needs constant praise and admiration. ...
• Sense of entitlement. ...
• Exploits others without guilt or shame. ...
• Frequently demeans, intimidates, bullies, or belittles others.

 

I fear he's too far gone to be brought back from the brink.