Thank you so much for all your honest words. Amy was my best friend of 33 years and I'm crushed. I kept trying to get her away from him but she always saw the best in people. I went online to find where he will be buried so I can spit on his grave but all your words have made me feel better. I loved Amy because she had a beautiful soul but I have a cynical one. This really isn't a joke. I honestly appreciate, and will remember these words, when I go bury my best friend on Monday.